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New Year…New You!

Sorry I haven’t be on here in a while.  Things have been so busy for me to have a few minutes and write down my thoughts.  A new year brings new things – a new season.  I chance to “start fresh.”  I spoke at the ladies luncheon last weekend about women and how important we are to His kingdom.  I read the scripture found in Exodus 38:8  ”He made a laver of bronze and its base of bronze, from the bronze mirrors of the serving women who assembled at the door of the tabernacle of meeting.”  When I first read through this verse, I thought, “What was the big deal with the women giving up their mirrors?”  As I begin to research, I found that the laver was an important thing to build.  It was the wash basin or bowl that the priests washed their face, feet, and hands in before they entered into presence of God.  It says in Exodus 30 that if the priests did not follow this command, they would surely die.  I think that is pretty important to do right the first time, huh? Anyway, these women had been ministering there and thought what do I have to give God to help build this tabernacle.  They gave up the only thing they had – their mirrors!  And the laver was made from them according to what God had instructed Moses.  Since the mirrors were made out of bronze, the laver was like a large mirror to be able to look at their face and to look for any spots left on them. 

Mirrors were very important to women back then – well they are to important to women today right?  But back then, a woman may have only one mirror, not like us today where we could have two or three – just in our purses!   So these women giving up their mirrors was an act of giving up what felt secure to them.  Remember, it was very dry and dusty in the desert and the mirrors were needed to make themselves beautiful for their husbands.  It meant they had to give up any insecurities about themselves.  These women gave up their right to look upon themselves for the greater purpose of looking upon God.   Sometimes we may look into our own mirror and see past failures, disappointments, and insecurities.  You may think I have messed up too bad for God to use me.  The truth is, you can not mess up bad enough for God to stop loving you.   God forgives us …. so why can’t we forgive ourselves!  

So the next time you look in the mirror, think about how you are an image of God.  God said when He created you…THIS IS VERY GOOD!

On Nov. 22nd, I married the man of my dreams.  This blog is devoted to him and I give 17 reasons why I love him more today than our wedding day…

17.  He is totally committed to God…

16.  He is a wonderful father to our three kids…

15.  He makes me smile when I am feeling down…

14.  He makes me feel safe and makes sure all the needs our met in the family…

13.  He loves to spend time with the kids -go fishing, play outside, take them to the movies or to Chuck E Cheese…

12.  He is absolutely gorgeous!! I love his smile…

11.  We can speak to each other and never have to use words…

10.  We can finish each others sentences…he always knows what I am thinking…

9.  He believes in me…

8.  He has always loved me for who I was and has never tried to change me…

7.  He brings me home little sweet things like chocolate or a Dr. Pepper (he remembers that its my favorite)… 

6.  He is the best preacher in the world…

5.  He helps me with the kids and he prays with them every night…

4.  He is thoughtful and kind- helps me with the dishes, brings me coffee in bed and STILL opens the car door for me after all these years…

3.  He loves to surprise me by taking me out on special dates…

2.  He is truly my best friend…

1.  Every morning, he gives me a kiss on the cheek and tells me he loves me before he gets out of bed!

These are just a few reasons why I love my husband. 

Jamie, God has blessed me with you and I love being your wife.  Thank you for 17 years of marriage and can’t wait to see what God has for us these next 17 years! 

I love you Jamie Jones!!!

It’s Fall…

I love this time of the year.  The crisp cool air (well, the first two hours of the day at least) and the smell of autumn.  Although I don’t like pumpkin pies, I love to smell them.  Something about this time of year brings back a lot of memories of when I was a kid.

I think about this time of the year hunting season starting…which meant when my dad went hunting, me, my mom, and sister went shopping…

I think about my mom cooking chili, chicken pot pie, and pecan pies…

I think about my granny’s corn soup and biscuits…

I think about eating candy corn until I got sick…

I think about roasting marshmallows in the back yard…(i think about eating a lot huh?)

I think about making turkeys in school by tracing my hand on a brown paper bag…

I think about fall festivals…

I think about trick or treating down my street (and all the costumes my mom would make me and my sister)…

Just some things I like to think about this time of the year. 

     I went to pick Joshua up from school yesterday and I was a little ways down the hallway waiting with all the parents.  Joshua walked out of the classroom looking for his daddy.  He seen me and yelled mommy and gave me a big hug.  Well, needless to say, my heart was melting.  I asked him if he had a good day and he looked at me and said “why aren’t you home cooking some supper”.  I started laughing because normally Jamie picks the kids up from school and this day I was picking them up.   And besides – Is that all I’m good for?  Anyway, we started down the hallway and he said “man i missed you today” and he hugged my leg again as we were walking.  My heart was about to explode at this point and so I stopped walking and knelt down right in the middle of the hallway and gave him a big hug for about 3 minutes – we were hugging, giving kisses and talking about his day.  Now our hallway is very busy after school and we were -I’m sure- in every ones way – but I didn’t care I was having a bottle up moment with my son.  (The moments that you wish you could keep forever in a bottle)

I was smiling from ear to ear after all that.  I knew Joshua loved his mommy!!!!!!  I was going to take advantage of that opportunity because it is not every day that I get attacked by the kids with love, kisses and hugs.  It is very sweet – but rare !

      Kristen is WAY too old to come running up to me with her arms opened wide.  She is in high school, are you kidding me?  James, has never been the kid that likes a lot of kissing, hugging and cuddling.  He is in middle school and I have learned not to kiss him goodbye in front of his friends.  He did though one morning shake my hand to say goodbye before school - really – he shook my hand!  That didn’t happen again (mama didn’t like that at all) -HA!

      Anyway, are you wondering how the rest of the afternoon went?  Well, got the kids loaded up in the truck and the boys started fighting about “something”.  I did make it home (started cooking/cleaning/washing clothes).  Joshua didn’t understand why I was making him do his homework, he doesn’t like to subtract numbers, so he adds them and gets them all wrong, he didn’t like what I was fixing for supper and I kept getting on him for torturing our Maltese dog.  Back to LIFE – huh? 

  Well, at least I can go back a few hours and remember all the hugs and kisses Joshua had given me after school…….as I’m trying to figure out why I always have one boys sock left over that doesn’ have a match!

I wonder what’s going to happen today after school!!!!!

Pics of kids

My babies are growing up.  Kristen is 14, a cheerleader at school.  James is 11 and plays football.  Joshua is 7 and also plays football.  It seems like a few days ago and I was bringing them home from the hospital.

As a mom, days can be hectic, right?  There are days where I don’t want the day to end and just want to bottle up all the days events and memories – the laughs, hugs and just sweetness.  But…there are days where I think “Is it bedtime yet?” because of kids fighting, homework and LIFE.  I know that tomorrow brings new beginnings…a new chance to be a better mommy.  I am learning to be a better mom, a better wife and a better servant for God.  This thing called “parenting” is new – even after three kids – every day is a new day with different challenges.  I mess up with it sometimes -we all do!  I tell Kristen all the time that I have never had a teenager before -be patient with me! HA!  

I have been reading “The Power of a Praying Parent”  It’s a really good book and has made me think about my responsibility as a mom.  I mean I pray for them daily but REALLY pray for protection, REALLY pray for guidance, REALLY pray that their hearts and minds are guarded against the evil of the world.  

The devil at hard at work – we must work harder!  Lamentations 2:19 says “Pour out your heart like water before the face of the Lord.  Lift your hands toward Him for the life of your young children.”

It doesn’t matter how old your children (or grandchildren) are, it’s never too late to discover the joys and endless possibilities within them. I don’t want to wake up one day and think I wish I would have done this or that more…that is my greatest fear.  I want to take each day – challenges and all – and turn them into opportunities.  Opportunity to hug each one a little longer, give more kisses and pray more.

I love the feeling I have when the kids are tucked into their beds asleep.   Ya know?  The walk around the house you make right before you go to bed to make sure the doors are locked and that last time you check on the kids in their bedrooms.  There is nothing like that feeling of knowing they are safe, protected and happy….

WHERE DOES THE TIME GO! 

I’ve got some great pictures of the kids coming soon!

God loves us freely.  What does that mean?  That means he loves you and I unconditionally.  Hosea 14:4 says “I will heal their faithfulness; I will love them freely.”

It is easy to get down on ourselves and feel we do not deserve His love.  Well guess what…WE don’t deserve His love.  His love for us is not based on who we are or what we have done – BUT who He is!!!  My kids aren’t always perfect kids (grandparents may think they are) but they are not.  They sometimes make mistakes, spill things, fight with each other, don’t listen and don’t clean their rooms.  However, I love them because they are MINE and there is nothing they can do that will separate that love.  Our God feels a stronger love about us – HIS CHILDREN.  You are HIS child!

You may struggle today in believing or accepting that God truly loves you.  Remember that is negative thinking that is put there by the devil.  It is not put there by God…God is love!  When we realize that God can heal our wounds and mend broken hearts, we have to believe He loves us freely…without requiring anything from us!  Just obedience.  

Remember: There is nothing you can do to separate His love from you! 

Be Blessed!

Lord,  today is a new day.  I chose to trust you and think good thoughts.  Jesus, I thank you for your unconditional love.  Help me to fill my heart and mind with your goodness and learn the true meaning of what LOVE is.  Amen!

Hello world!

Well!  Lets try this blog thing…and see what happens!